Bonding with Mom by Takiya Aiken



Bonding with Mom by Takiya Aiken

Bonding with my mom has so many special moments for me that it’s hard to pick just one time. Mama Wadiyah, the name everyone calls her, is loved by many people near and far. Mama has a way of making everyone feel special. She’s so warm and kind hearted and takes nothing too serious. It really takes a lot to shift Mama’s spirit.  Her faith is strong and her motto is “speak all positive things to your life and they will be yours”.  I appreciate her way of seeing things but didn’t always feel this way.

I became a parent in my teens and Mama was there every step of the way. When she found out I thought she’d disown me and banish me from the family. Instead she sat me down and reminded me of the gift that was in my womb. She told me that the first time was a mistake and for me to strive to not get pregnant again till I was older and better established in life. People would tell her to send me to a home for young moms; others even told her to have me get rid of it. Discussions were held about how we’d care for my child when his father and I were still in High School. At the same time my Stepfather was away working and Mama was pregnant herself with my third sibling. With all this pressure from naysayers I swore Mama would conform to their beliefs and opinions. With all that was going on Mama stayed strong and focused. She came to every prenatal appointment with me. She and I would read books on motherhood and she even found a support group for me and was a regular volunteer of it.

When labor hit Mama was right there by my side saying prayers and reminding me that I was doing a great job. That shield of positivity and belief in the unseen has made my Mama such a phenomenal women. In the mist of that storm she respected people who we know and love yet she knew what was happening in our life was a blessing. She used their dots to show them better than she could have ever told them.

I understand now the true gift she is. Her character has taught me life is a journey and that if you go rush through it you won’t gain all the wonderful lessons it has for you. I’m so blessed to have her as a mom.  Wadiyah Abdur-Rahim is my hero for life.

 

-        Takiya Aiken


» Sarah said: { May 3, 2011 - 11:05:26 }

Takiya, your essay actually brought tears to my eyes. As a mother myself, I would do no less for my daughter, regardless if I was disappointed in her choices/actions. The bottom line is that as a mother, you do whatever it takes to be there and support your child. I can only imagine that you, as a mother, have the same qualities learned from your mom. That strength will be passed down to your children as well.

» Sara Sanderson said: { May 3, 2011 - 12:05:39 }

I LOVE you CGG, you are a strong woman and you get it from a strong mother. I would be so blessed to meet you both. XOXO

» Ummilkhair said: { May 3, 2011 - 02:05:47 }

I absolutely love it!!!!

» Ummilkhair said: { May 3, 2011 - 02:05:50 }

MOMS RULES!!

» Takiya said: { May 3, 2011 - 07:05:50 }

Thanks for the support family! Love you all ^_^.

» Takiya said: { May 3, 2011 - 07:05:24 }

This is so wonderful and the more I read it the more I appreciate Mama Wadiyah!

» Imani Uqdah said: { May 3, 2011 - 08:05:58 }

Made me really appreciate my mommy!

» Imani Uqdah said: { May 3, 2011 - 08:05:26 }

Very touching!

» Wadiyah A. Rahim said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:17 }

Takiya Baby Girl, this was wonderful. I’m so touched, humbled, and speechless at the same time. I love you my Darling you have my vote.

» Wadiyah A. Rahim said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:40 }

I vote for you again Dear! :)

» Zalika said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:32 }

Diva, this story was so touching!!! I’m honored to have been one of those to have read it :)

» Zalika said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:59 }

I vote for you again as well!

» Ardnas Rashid said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:05 }

Takiya, you know I have always loved and respected Mama Wadiyah, but I love and respect her even more after hearing more of the details of the love and support she gave you during your trails as a young mother.

» Ardnas Rashid said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:12 }

That’s precisely why I love Mama Wadiyah, she ALWAYS has a good word, loving smile, huge warm hug, open door, listening ear, and a fabulous meal for the weary soul.

» Savannah Rose said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:06 }

Beautifully said!

» Savannah Rose said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:13 }

I am blessed to have such wonderful spirits in my life.

» T. Talford said: { May 3, 2011 - 09:05:27 }

You are so blessed girl!

» T. Talford said: { May 3, 2011 - 10:05:41 }

Much love to you and the family.

» sharifah said: { May 3, 2011 - 10:05:28 }

CGG I LOVE THIS STORY YOU HAVE MY VOTE YOU BOTH ARE TRULY BLESSED SPIRITS
LUV U BOTH

» sharifah said: { May 3, 2011 - 10:05:05 }

I AM VOTING FOR THIS STORY AGAIN!!!

» France said: { May 3, 2011 - 11:05:34 }

Love this tory from two exceptional sisters that exemplify beauty. Luv you guys

» France said: { May 3, 2011 - 11:05:21 }

Your example allows me to see the beauty in my mom and our relationship may the lord make it stronger.

» Monik Douglas said: { May 4, 2011 - 01:05:02 }

Takiya,

What a great honor and tribute that you have written to your mother. When I see her in my mind’s eye, all I see is smiles and true to form, when I bump into her, her smile is her embrace (as well as a tight hug and squeeze). I am glad you wrote your story. It actually made me think warmly and compassionately for my mom, who was barely out of 11th grade when she birthed me. I wish she’d had the non-judgmental support and tenderness that your mom provided to you as a teen mom. I love my mother without question and I thank you for reminding me to cherish her all the more through your story. U hav my vote no doubt…

» Najla said: { May 4, 2011 - 05:05:09 }

Yes she is… Tht was so beautiful….. Gotta luv her!!!!

» Sis Rashidah said: { May 4, 2011 - 06:05:23 }

Takiya, you know your mom brought me thru some trying times,you got my vote

» Sis Rashidah said: { May 4, 2011 - 06:05:36 }

I was there thru those times in your life,you know we go way back :)

» Zaimah said: { May 4, 2011 - 06:05:45 }

ASA! I knew your mom was special… but wow. “Mama Wadiyah” may God bless her, and you Takiya. This was a touching touching touching example of the power of love and the resilience of mothers. I love you and pray you win this because your story connects with so many peoples lives. Love Always, Zaimah

» Zaimah said: { May 4, 2011 - 06:05:48 }

This was amaaaaaaziiiiing :o ) I just re-read so I had to revote =:o)! Love this story!!!

» Jo Ann Cody said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:25 }

So Pure & Real…Bonded with Love:) Aunt Jo

» Monik said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:25 }

Voting again. Loved you and your personal story.

» Akilah said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:15 }

Your mother sounds amazing. The type of person the world needs more of.

» Jo Ann Cody said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:33 }

Your appreciation for your Mom will go far in the eyes of the Beholder. You are soooooo sweet! Love U

» Akilah said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:06 }

Hitting you up again for my vote because your story is so compelling.

» Muminah said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:23 }

In the famous words of Mama Wadiya “JUMBO”!!!!!!
Takiya you are lucky to have such a beautiful spirit in your life guiding and supporting you. As you know my mom passed away when i was a young girl, i miss her everyday and she was a magnificent spirit as well. I love you and Mama Wadiya’s relationship because it represents TRUE love, support, respect, and most of all friendship. You all are a TRUE representation of mother and daughter and of what i miss. Mama Wadiya is the best!!!!!!

» Muminah said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:11 }

MOMS ROCK!!!! You got my vote

» wayne said: { May 4, 2011 - 08:05:58 }

man your going to make me cry now i want to write about my moma

» wayne said: { May 4, 2011 - 08:05:37 }

this is good stuff Auntie Wadiya Rocks!!!!!!!!!!!

» Jodi Taylor said: { May 4, 2011 - 09:05:29 }

Takiya, I just posted on your profile how touching and inspirational your essay is! I should have saved it for here :) Tears still fill my eyes, especially having had the pleasure of meeting you and knowing the loving and giving person you are, just adds to the depth of your story! You’re a very special person whom I greatly admire! Children are a true blessing! As your Son is to you, and you to your Mother! Thank you for sharing this with all of us! I truly hope it inspires everyone else, as much as it has me!

» Antonio St. Louis said: { May 4, 2011 - 10:05:34 }

Jambo! Remember Mama that used to through those children’s Eid events at empire so many fond memories it just reminds me to give roses while our love ones are still here!

» Antonio St. Louis said: { May 4, 2011 - 10:05:31 }

Thanks for sharing Takiya

» Akeem fakhri said: { May 4, 2011 - 10:05:36 }

beautiful words, from an beautiful sister, an from this essay i understand why…its because you have an beautiful mother….

» Akeem fakhri said: { May 4, 2011 - 10:05:55 }

the way you wrote it was well,,(presentation points)

» cedar said: { May 4, 2011 - 10:05:37 }

i vote for Takiya Aiken beautiful …. just beautiful

» Fahima said: { May 4, 2011 - 10:05:09 }

LOVED IT! So heartfelt and beautiful mA

» Khaliya said: { May 4, 2011 - 11:05:32 }

From what I can tell, you are a reflection of your mother in both words and deeds. I have only interacted with you a few times but each time I am inspired. You are real and it shows. I admire your upbeat personality, your charitable nature, and your easy to approach demeanor. Love you for the sake of Allah, sis! xo

» Khaliya said: { May 4, 2011 - 11:05:59 }

P.S. Great story, thanks so much for sharing. Job well done Sis. Wadiyah! :) HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY (every day) to you both!

» Dionti said: { May 4, 2011 - 11:05:12 }

This was SO Beautiful & Positive. Everything you say about Mama is the Boogey Down TRUTH ! She is SOOO Positive & has a AMAZING Positive aura & energy to her. Wonderful Essay.

» Dionti said: { May 4, 2011 - 11:05:44 }

Talk about SUPPORT ! Mama by herself is a Support team ! Toast to that

» Andrae said: { May 4, 2011 - 02:05:59 }

You have my vote CGG.

» sariyah said: { May 4, 2011 - 03:05:32 }

aw ur mom iz a blessed lay, alwayz with a mile high smile…

» Essence Defairia-Abdul-Jihad said: { May 4, 2011 - 03:05:41 }

I so remember many fond memories of your mom, extraordinary WOMAN she is! I was with you taking that same support class for teen moms, where I had the privilege of meeting Wadiyah your mom always eager to assist many of nights I called her, crying or simply needed an ear, the ear of an over understanding Mom and never once was I ever denied

» sariyah said: { May 4, 2011 - 03:05:14 }

and u too takiyah, that waz a double mom story…aw. 1st place.

» Rasheedah T. said: { May 4, 2011 - 03:05:27 }

Wow, such a moving story. You and your mom are both beautiful, wonderful people. God bless!!

» Rasheedah T. said: { May 4, 2011 - 04:05:43 }

You definitely have my vote!

» cedar said: { May 4, 2011 - 06:05:47 }

i vote for Takiya Aiken again, beautiful …. just beautiful

» Jodi Taylor said: { May 4, 2011 - 06:05:12 }

I just read through your story again and again, it brought me to tears! Which just made me hug Carson just a bit tighter as he passed by my desk! The bond, friendship and relationship you and your Mother share are a gift I’m certain you’ve passed on to your Son! Again my dear, you have my vote!

» Dee Green said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:32 }

You CERTAINLY have my vote! Reading this makes me think of my mom and how truely she was and will forever be loved!!

» Takiya said: { May 4, 2011 - 07:05:42 }

I want to take the time out to say “Thank You” to each and every one of you beautiful souls! I’m so moved by all this love & support. =^)

» Tami said: { May 4, 2011 - 08:05:03 }

Takiya, Your Mom sounds like the BESTEST!! You are SO very blessed to have each other and I can see that ALOT of her has been passed onto you.
You are so very kind to everyone on FB,making each new person feel welcome and a part of the family, it’s incredibly touching. Thanks for sharing this WONDERFUL story!!

» Sandra said: { May 4, 2011 - 08:05:13 }

My vote is for Takiya. If you know Sis. Wadiyah you can’t help but love her spirit.

» Divalicious Designs said: { May 4, 2011 - 08:05:10 }

Sis Wadiyah is a such a beautiful person with an enormous heart and you definitely share those traits… such wonderful people you are!!

» Divalicious Designs said: { May 4, 2011 - 08:05:41 }

Oh and you got my vote too!

» Essence Defairia-Abdul-Jihad said: { May 4, 2011 - 09:05:14 }

I am definitely voting for you sistahs it amazes me how your mom still remembers me after 20 something years! And I shocked her when I remembered your sisters names she was in awe! I simply said “When you LOVE someone and the MATTER YOU NEVER FORGET THEM!”

» Sukaynah said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:39 }

You have my vote!

» Sukaynah said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:24 }

Beautiful essay I so love Mama Wadiyah

» Rose Robinson said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:56 }

Awesome essay your mom is a true blessing to us all! The vote is yours!

» Rose Robinson said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:53 }

I vote for your essay Takiya. Job well done!

» Nina said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:18 }

This was beautiful!! MashaAllah. A mothers love for her child, amazing n vice versa! I def vote for you!

» F. Cruz said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:16 }

You have my vote!

» F. Cruz said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:27 }

my vote goes to you!

» Awwa Wright said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:55 }

Mama Wadiyah we all love your positive vibe. Everyone is so important to you and it shows in how you treat us. Takiya you have my vote!

» Awwa Wright said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:16 }

Much success always. I vote for Takiya Aiken.

» Steve said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:15 }

You have my vote!

» Steve said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:34 }

This vote goes to your essay Takiya!

» LKenya said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:43 }

Winning!

» LKenya said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:20 }

Mama Wadiyah is our hero. Here’s my vote!

» Chantell said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:07 }

This essay had my crying and thinking of special moments shared with my mom. The vote is yours!

» Chantell said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:04 }

Loved this essay, love to give it my vote.

» Kick Drum said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:56 }

Mama Wadiyah was there for me through some trying times as well. She’d say “let me put on some tea” then we work out our problems. I’ll always love her. My Vote!

» Kick Drum said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:29 }

I vote for this essay!

» Keykey said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:01 }

Love this! You surely have my VOTE.

» Keykey said: { May 5, 2011 - 03:05:01 }

#Team Mama Wadiyah

» Mr. Blake said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:48 }

Wadiyah is a sister all should have the privilege of meeting. She’s so spiritual, loving, giving, understanding, sensitive to others, and the list goes on. I’m thankful to The Creator for people like her. Good essay.

» Mr. Blake said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:22 }

My Vote!

» Mateen said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:54 }

#Team Wadiyah

» Mateen said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:17 }

#Team Takiya

» Epp said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:17 }

You have my vote!

» Epp said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:54 }

#Team Takiya & Mama Wadiyah

» Tiffany said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:07 }

#Team Takiya has my vote!

» Tiffany said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:59 }

#Team Wadiyah has my vote!

» Lisa G said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:01 }

#Go Team Takiya

» Lisa G said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:52 }

You have my vote!

» Nicola said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:17 }

Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya

» Nicola said: { May 5, 2011 - 10:05:52 }

Go Team!

» Amoha said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:46 }

Wonderful Essay

» Amoha said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:31 }

Go Team Takiya & Wadiyah!

» Hadiyah said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:13 }

Perfect I love it.

» Hadiyah said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:52 }

Team Wadiyah & Takiya!

» Dawn Williams said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:32 }

I can relate to the essay being a teen mom was a big trail in my life. I wish I had a Mama Wadiyah back then.

» Dawn Williams said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:04 }

Team Mama Wadiyah!

» Angelina Sparks said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:16 }

Didn’t want it to end felt like I needed more. Like what happen after Takiya gave birth? How was life raising her child? Forgive me if it seems like I’m going too deep it’s just that this essay has touched my heart.

» Angelina Sparks said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:54 }

This essay has my vote

» Zulfika said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:46 }

Mama Wadiyah came to my school in the Kawala village of Africa. She helped the teachers and students we fall in love with her. Mama is like Queen here. She smile and say “Gumbo” making you feel so nice. I love Mama and I thank you Takiya for sharing you Umi with us. Ma Salaams

» Zulfika said: { May 5, 2011 - 11:05:04 }

Umi Wadiyah and Takiya this vote is for you. Gumbo Ma Salaama!

» Yezzy said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:54 }

Lil sis u already know u got my vote!

» Yezzy said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:39 }

Real Moms Stand Up! #Team Wadiya & Takiya

» Humble Friend said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:53 }

THIS ESSAY ROCK! mashaAllah **stands to clap** The Vote Is Here Baby!!!

» Humble Friend said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:29 }

Top Voter In The Building! (^_^)

» Johnnie said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:06 }

I vote for this essay!

» Johnnie said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:57 }

Put that on everything, my vote is for this here essay!

» Mark said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:35 }

Winning!

» Mark said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:07 }

Another Top Voter!

» Raspberry Beret said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:03 }

Vote VOTE vote, mine is for this one

» Raspberry Beret said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:32 }

this essay has my vote!

» Abidah Hajj said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:54 }

alhamdulillah I love this. My vote is here!

» Abidah Hajj said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:27 }

#Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya

» Jadayah Edwards said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:52 }

HOLLA! This is one of the best essays posted *they are all good though*. Here’s my…….VOTE!!!

» Jadayah Edwards said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:18 }

Here’s another………..VOTE!

» Hector James said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:22 }

lol @ Jadayah :) . I love you all and y’all already know Mama Wadiyah IS THE BEST AUNTIE EVER! #TEAM MAMA WADIYAH & TAKIYA. Guess what y’all? I just voted!

» Hector James said: { May 5, 2011 - 12:05:08 }

Here’s my second. Mama Wadiyah you’re so worth it. Keep the VOTES coming fam I’m out <3 you :) .

» Najeeyah said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:46 }

Go Team U N I T Y!!! Love you all :) Mama Wadiyah we miss you Gumbo Gumbo!

» Najeeyah said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:36 }

#Team Takiya & Mama Wdiyah!

» Gilbert said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:21 }

Takiya we love your essay and have our vote.

» Gilbert said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:51 }

I too would love to read the continuation :) . Good Luck CGG you have our vote!

» Liban said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:16 }

YAAY! I vote for this essay.

» Liban said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:12 }

Your writing is getting better girl I love it. You have my vote.

» Sallie Cuffe said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:30 }

#Team Mama Wdiyah

» Sallie Cuffe said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:17 }

#Team Takiya

» Abdul said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:25 }

Here’s my VOTE!

» Abdul said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:57 }

Here’s my second VOTE!

» Princess Brown said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:56 }

Hey Takiya, did you do your homework? lol You have my VOTE Boo!

» Princess Brown said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:13 }

Are you sure you can handle another VOTE? lol I really enjoyed this read.

» Gail Jones said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:01 }

#Team U N I T Y!

» Gail Jones said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:58 }

#Go Team U N I T Y!

» Cookie Jordan said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:29 }

#Team U N I T Y! We love you Kiya :) .

» Cookie Jordan said: { May 5, 2011 - 01:05:05 }

#Team U N I T Y!

» DJ Booker said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:10 }

#Team U N I T Y! Here representing my Diva for life! Takiya we love you and your big booty too lol.

» DJ Booker said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:20 }

#Team U N I T Y! Here’s my second VOTE!

» Rose Thaoo said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:15 }

“Hey did you do your homework yet?” lol. Takiya I miss you Babe. Good essay! #Team U N I T Y!

» Rose Thaoo said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:30 }

#Team U N I T Y! Good Luck! Plz kiss and hug Mama Wadiyah for us.

» J. White said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:31 }

Big Booty Judy’s cousin lol. I love you girl and your essay rocks! You have my VOTE for sure. #Team U N I T Y!

» J. White said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:18 }

Second……VOTE! #Team U N I T Y!

» Bankowski said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:08 }

DO YOUR H/W lol! You’d always tell us this, then you’d do yours hrs b4 class LMAO. Takiya keep writing we love it. Good luck my VOTE is here for you. #Team U N I T Y!

» Bankowski said: { May 5, 2011 - 02:05:51 }

#Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya

» Kimi said: { May 6, 2011 - 12:05:01 }

I loved it hun! Great essay!!!!

» Shuaib said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:37 }

You have my VOTE! #Team U N I T Y!

» Shuaib said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:23 }

Second VOTE! #Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya

» Emily said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:45 }

Here’s my VOTE!

» Emily said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:35 }

You have my second VOTE! LOVE YA Takiya! :)

» Chester H. said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:16 }

Good Luck! #Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya! (Keep the VOTES coming support our lovely friend.)

» Chester H. said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:55 }

My VOTE goes to this essay.

» Daniella Cob said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:25 }

#Team U N I T Y! Go Takiya good luck Babe! VOTING……..

» Daniella Cob said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:10 }

Second VOTE! Let’s go Team U N I T Y!!!!

» Patches said: { May 6, 2011 - 07:05:38 }

My VOTE you now have.

» Patches said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:47 }

Keep writing Takiya and we’ll keep reading. I love you and I’m proud to say I know you and Mama Wadiyah. Happy Mother’s Day! This VOTE goes to you.

» Brenda Aiken said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:45 }

Takiya my Love I know my sister feels so blessed to have you for her daughter. The way you’ve described her is how she’s always been. This essay made me cry more than once and I really love what I’ve read. I call her Jackie she’s my first sibling. I love you Jackie and Takiya. You have my VOTE! Happy Mother’s Day to all the wonderful mothers everywhere!!!

» Brenda Aiken said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:36 }

Here is another VOTE! GOOD LUCK!

» Theda said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:15 }

I VOTE for this essay.

» Theda said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:14 }

My second VOTE is still for this essay. Takiya you’re one of the best Diva! WE LOVE YOU!

» Niy said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:23 }

#Team U N I T Y! My VOTE is here BABY!

» Niy said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:33 }

Where’s all the U N I T Y Divas? Y’all better vote for our girl. My second VOTE is still here Baby!

» Merle said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:34 }

Love the essay and it’s writer. My VOTE is for this essay.

» Merle said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:31 }

I’m VOTING again. We all love you Takiya you’ve come a long way my Dear.

» Savoy said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:15 }

My VOTE is for this essay!

» Savoy said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:36 }

Just like my first VOTE, my second is for this essay. VOTING WITH LOVE! Love you Mama Wadiyah and Takiya.

» Ken said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:51 }

VOTE #1

» Ken said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:34 }

VOTE #2 Love you Pancake! *insider*

» Lateefah Shabazz said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:50 }

I love CCG and mama Wadiyah they have been an inspiration to my life. Love U both the most.

» Lateefah Shabazz said: { May 6, 2011 - 08:05:54 }

I lovveee U alll the best!!! CCG love U girl!

» Zonya Melendez said: { May 6, 2011 - 10:05:58 }

This was such a moving story… and a true reflection of the wonderful women you both are.. May the Creator be pleased… You have my vote!

» Nisaa A Najieb said: { May 6, 2011 - 10:05:45 }

inspirational !!! Much love to you and Mama Wadiyah!!!

» Saf Uqdah said: { May 6, 2011 - 05:05:36 }

You are so blessed with a supportive Mother!!!!!!!!

» Saf Uqdah said: { May 6, 2011 - 05:05:53 }

Great essay many can relate also very inspiring! You’ve shown that with FAITH, love is second nature.

» susan said: { May 6, 2011 - 09:05:13 }

Takiya, beautiful stroy about your moim, I love her like saying” speak all positive things to your life and they will be yours”, How true! you were very lucky to have your mom in your teens!!! So much to learn from your story!!! you have my vote!!!

» loove tea said: { May 6, 2011 - 10:05:56 }

Wonderful story we all love mama wadiyah

» Mary Booker said: { May 7, 2011 - 04:05:29 }

you have my vote!

» Mary Booker said: { May 7, 2011 - 04:05:57 }

you have my second VOTE!

» Karol Demer said: { May 7, 2011 - 01:05:30 }

you have my VOTE!

» Karol Demer said: { May 7, 2011 - 01:05:47 }

Takiya one of the things I love the most about you is you’ve always shared your life stories. You may not realize it Babe but that’s therapy for you and others. I know sometimes you worry if people will look at you different due to what you’ve been through. Well guess what……..we all have a story they make us who we are. I thank you for sharing and always being a true person. The world is a better place thanks to the Lord blessing us with ppl like you. :) You now have my SECOND VOTE!

» Jabir Suluki said: { May 7, 2011 - 01:05:47 }

I VOTE for this essay!

» Jabir Suluki said: { May 7, 2011 - 01:05:17 }

My second VOTE is for this essay!

» Juanita Edwards said: { May 7, 2011 - 01:05:39 }

You have my first VOTE!

» Juanita Edwards said: { May 7, 2011 - 01:05:36 }

Here is my second VOTE! Love you Mama Wadiyah & Takiya!

» Amadi Hayer said: { May 7, 2011 - 02:05:10 }

I love my Mother and sister Takiya so much! You have my VOTE!

» Amadi Hayer said: { May 7, 2011 - 02:05:49 }

#Team U N I T Y! You have my second VOTE!

» Alan Berger said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:51 }

You have me VOTE!

» Alan Berger said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:25 }

You have my second VOTE!

» Sid said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:07 }

Good Luck 1st VOTE!

» Sid said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:37 }

Much success 2nd VOTE!

» Henry said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:09 }

Loves the essay 1st VOTE!

» Henry said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:46 }

Loves this essay 2nd VOTE!

» Shelly said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:13 }

#Team U N I T Y! 1st VOTE!

» Shelly said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:06 }

#Team U N I T Y! 2nd VOTE!

» Sheryll said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:07 }

Go Takiya we support you. YAAY, yaay, YAAY! 1st VOTE!

» Sheryll said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:50 }

2nd VOTE and if more were allowed I’d never stop VOTING. I love you much girl. #Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya

» Tarin said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:07 }

you have our VOTE!

» Tarin said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:41 }

you have my second VOTE!

» Lily said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:29 }

Love you Takiya and I’m free from many fears and doubts thanks to you being my friend. Every time I tried to crawl in my hole of sorrow you’d seek me out to lift my spirits. You share your life stories so easily and many of us know this wasn’t always easy for you. Thank you for being a friend and sharing this essay. You have my VOTE!

» Lily said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:06 }

here is my second VOTE!

» Woznow said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:32 }

#Team U N I T Y! 1st VOTE

» Woznow said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:11 }

#Team U N I T Y! 2nd VOTE

» Paone said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:11 }

1st VOTE!

» Paone said: { May 8, 2011 - 05:05:35 }

2nd VOTE!

» Suebeeha said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:43 }

#Team U N I T Y! Here holding you down Big Booty Jodi :) lol.

» Suebeeha said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:20 }

2nd VOTE!

» Schonborn said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:30 }

Love you, Mama Wadiyah, and this essay.

» Schonborn said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:44 }

2nd VOTE! Keep writing and sharing Takiya we all love it.

» Joe Holt said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:19 }

#Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya!

» Joe Holt said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:53 }

#Team U N I T Y! 2nd VOTE!

» Nedabokai said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:14 }

Takiya you and I would always bump heads and I couldn’t put my finger on why? Everyone in our circle loves to love you but I always had a beef. Just last year it hit me when you shared some of your pasted trails with our mutual friend. I realized I had issues with you not because you weren’t a beautiful person, my issue was your realness. Don’t get me wrong I love for people to be real it’s just that you are too open at times and that scarred me. Now I understand why you’re this way and I love you more and more girl. This essay has opened my eyes and helped me appreciate you more. My apologies for letting my fear stunt our growth as friends. YOU HAVE MY VOTE! *I know there’s more I need to say to you but we shall see each other soon*

» Nedabokai said: { May 8, 2011 - 06:05:46 }

#Team U N I T Y! #Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya! 2nd VOTE I LOVE YOU TAKIYA!

» Malikah said: { May 8, 2011 - 09:05:32 }

Beautiful story!

» Dejah said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:43 }

you have my VOTE!

» Dejah said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:28 }

2nd Vote!

» Nya H. said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:28 }

1st VOTE

» Nya H. said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:29 }

2nd VOTE

» Tim said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:57 }

You have my vote

» Hafeez said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:49 }

I vote for Takiya’s essay

» Hafeez said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:32 }

my second vote is for Takiya’s essay

» Cinnamon said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:31 }

#Team U N I T Y!

» Cinnamon said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:09 }

2nd VOTE!

» Rick said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:03 }

Go Team U N I T Y!

» Rick said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:35 }

2nd VOTE!

» Sajuso said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:23 }

1st Vote, love this essay

» Sajuso said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:52 }

2nd Vote for this essay

» Jas said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:42 }

I love this essay. It’s very nice of Bond No.9 to do this for you all.

» Jas said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:09 }

I vote for this essay

» Talimah said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:40 }

Good Luck Takiya, I vote for your essay

» Talimah said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:19 }

I’m voting again for this essay

» Amatullah B. said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:28 }

I vote for this essay

» Amatullah B. said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:04 }

I vote for this essay. Go Takiya!

» Tinsley said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:59 }

#Team U N I T Y! This essay has my vote

» Tinsley said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:44 }

#Team Mama Wadiyah & Takiya

» Tamar 25 said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:35 }

my vote is for this essay

» Tamar 25 said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:39 }

we’re playing you had fun with this. It’s a good essay and it gets my second vote

» Hamed said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:34 }

Love and miss Mama Wadiyah. Gumbo!

» Hamed said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:15 }

You Can Do It!

» Morgan said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:16 }

I believe in you Takiya thank you for helping me. 1st VOTE

» Morgan said: { May 8, 2011 - 10:05:57 }

Love you! 2nd VOTE

» Najmah said: { May 8, 2011 - 11:05:15 }

This was beautiful :)

» Najmah said: { May 8, 2011 - 11:05:05 }

“speak all positive things to your life and they will be yours”. <—Love This!

 
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